{"id":1200,"date":"2008-03-30T18:36:36","date_gmt":"2008-03-30T18:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/learningaloud.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/30\/social-sites-and-self-control\/"},"modified":"2008-03-30T18:42:00","modified_gmt":"2008-03-30T18:42:00","slug":"social-sites-and-self-control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learningaloud.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/30\/social-sites-and-self-control\/","title":{"rendered":"Social Sites and Self Control"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I probably did some stupid things when I was a college student (according to my wife). Let&#8217;s just say I did. I wonder if I would have the good sense to not compound the stupidity by sharing my accomplishments with the rest of the world.<\/p>\n<p>There seem to be case after case in which young people give in to the temptation to &#8220;share something stupid&#8221;. Here is but another example.<\/p>\n<p>The University of North Dakota has long used the Sioux name as a representation of the university, i.e., &#8220;Fighting Sioux&#8221;. The mascot issue is the focus of a great controversy here now involving the NCAA. My intent is not to discuss this issue, but I note this situation to set the context for my remarks about student online behavior. For the record, there is no &#8220;mascot&#8221; (unlike say Florida State), but the name is associated with the athletic teams and does appear on &#8220;sports gear&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, the Gamma Phi Beta sorority had a cowboy-theme party that somehow morphed into a party in which participants dressed as Indian &#8220;maidens&#8221; and &#8220;warriors&#8221; with paint, loin cloths, etc. Photos made their way to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.indianz.com\/News\/2008\/007787.asp\">the web<\/a>  and eventually the story broke in the <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.forumcomm.com\/grandforks\/articles\/index.cfm?page=purchase&amp;id=71393&amp;CFID=4119229&amp;CFTOKEN=98431592&amp;jsessionid=8830fe264d0648536621\">local paper<\/a>. Inappropriate anywhere, and certainly inappropriate and damaging within an environment that promotes sensitivity to specific issues of this type.<\/p>\n<p>Given the &#8220;affordances&#8221; (sorry, I just returned from a conference and while terms such as this typically annoy me, this is a situation in which the term is useful) of social networking opportunities, are such examples unavoidable? I am guessing so. Poor judgment and lack of self control (under the influence) are unavoidable. Combine these realities and this is what you get.<\/p>\n<p>Hold the students responsible? Absolutely! College is about learning to be responsible. You can&#8217;t seriously ask to be treated as a responsible adult and not accept the consequences of such a request.<\/p>\n<p>My wife talks to future teachers in her classes about this situation all of the time. 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